Adjusters are highly trained to do one thing, get you to sign a release. You are emotionally invested in the accident because you are the one that has been negatively affected by the car crash. When the two sides meet in the middle, sparks can fly.
Letting your emotions dictate your negotiations is a sure fire way to lose your battle against the insurance adjuster. If you lose your cool and start making this a personal battle with the adjuster, you will never get what you are looking for. All too often people end up having to call an attorney because they just couldn’t get anywhere with the adjuster on their own. More often than not, the reason they couldn’t get anywhere with the adjuster was because the adjuster got under their skin and they lost their cool. Once that happens, negotiations stop because both parties dig their heels in and neither one wants to concede to the other.
When negotiating with the adjuster, keep your emotions checked at the door. If you feel your temperature rising, politely end the call and take a couple of days before calling the adjuster back. If you just can’t work with the adjuster, call his supervisor and ask for your file to be transfered to a new adjuster. If you are still having problems with a second adjuster, the problem is likely you. You may be the kind of person that just can’t keep their emotions in check and that’s OK, you’ll just need to hire someone to do your negotiating for you.